Maybe you have forgotten who you are. Maybe you have forgotten how to be with your partner. Perhaps you feel emotionally disconnected and sexually unfulfilled. Possibly you have tried date nights, scheduled sex, couples counseling, yoga, or meditation. Instead of avoiding it or hoping it changes, maybe it’s time to take a proactive approach to getting the support you need. You are ready to co-create a relationship that supports you both by getting clear on your wants, your needs, and your desires and receiving guidance around how to experience them.

As a sex and intimacy coach, I support you with embodied exercises and practices steeped in neuroscience, trauma healing, modern psychology and ancient Tantric and Taoist wisdom. I support you to co-create a relationship and life filled with epic sex and deep intimacy. You are worthy of experiencing a deeper connection within and in love with the sex you want and the intimacy you desire. 

Hi, I am Daniela (she/they)–a queer, white, cisgender woman of mixed-fat and middle class background. My people come from what is now known as Germany, Sweden, the Azores, and England. I live and work on the ancestral and unceded traditional lands of the Tamyen Ohlone people (part of the current day Muwekma Ohlone tribe). As a sex and intimacy coach, guide, and writer I am a trauma-informed tantric practitioner and pro-justice advocate and ally as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three and a Bay Area Californian. Over the last seven years, I’ve worked with hundreds of couples as a certified integrated sex, love, and relationship coach with four years of training at The Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality specializing in relationships, men’s work, tantric sex, and jade egg. I also have a masters degree in Communication Studies, spent over a decade as a college teacher, and am a certified yoga teacher. For me, nothing is more important than connection.